In recent time, rants and blame have always been put on guys for forcing ladies into intimacy. If you think that only guys act weird when denied them entrance to promising land, then your cluelessness can be likened to that of a man who ruled the nation for nearly 6 years and threw the nation into a state of calamity Note:

No matter how we try to embellish pre-marital s*x, it will never change fact that it’s actually bad, so all ye pastors, don’t castigate me cos this is not to encourage pre-marital s*x Now lemme keep the ball rolling 10 Ways Some Nigerian Ladies React When You Deny Them s*x

1. She tags you an Impotent If you think only guys want to know the intimacy capacity of the opposite s*x or want have s*x for fun, then you must seriously be sleeping on a moving okada. Some ladies hope to get laid once they visit you.
But failing to do the needful on their visit to your abode will make them label you impotent, and make your assumed impotence the thrush of discussion among their friends. It is thus started, do you know that Makinde is sheer impotent? Imagine he couldn’t even lay a finger on me despite how hot and sexy I was. and the hours spent in his God forbidden room.

2. She starts acting weird the next day Someone you barely had misunderstanding with suddenly started nagging for no reason, isn’t that funny? This mostly happens when you fail to do the needful.

3. She might call the relationship a Quit I’m a living witness to this and heaven can bear me witness. A lady has once dumped my ass just because I failed to take advantage of her intimate feeling. Her supposed love for me headed on diminishing returns and within the tinkle of an eye, that was the end of it. I would have broken my celibacy, if I had taken advantage of her wanton.

4. She Waits for a Pay Back Revenge, they say, is sweeter when served hot. Believe me, she is definitely going to wait for the day she will pay you back in her own coins.
When you so much desire it and your pestle has made a tent in your short, she mercilessly will leave you starved of forbiden fruit while dying to have it.

5. She Cheats on you They will be like ‘when my bae can’t use his instrument to deal with me or can’t make out with or give me that feeling whenever I come visting, I will need to get assistant/supporting bae(s) to service me whenever I get into the mood’.
This is how some of them are likely to cheat on their boyfriends when they were denied it

6. She Flirts They will start flirting with other guys just to make you feel she is giving them a chance since you are not doing your responsibilities (not all of them though)

7. She tells her friends that you are not fun to be with(or Romantic) Heaven can bear me witness that I had this experience during my ND programme. It reminds me of a junior college who happened to be very close to me and I used to crash in her villa when her room mate was not around. (Not an intimate friendship though). There was a day I and her room mate were cracking jokes when she said something that gave me the shock of my life. She said and I quote “I can bet a million that even if my friend goes unclad, you would still do nothing. At that instance, it was as if the ground should swallow me up

8. She Stops Visiting When you fail do your presupposed responsibility with them upon visiting, they give various excuses and then stop visiting. This is not a sort of exaggeration. They also do that and tag you immature

9. She indirectly Mocks you with her status updates You see updates like ‘it’s good to be with that person that will make you feel like a woman

10. Add your's to make it up... ;).

Immediate past minister is said to be in a life-threatening condition from an unnamed disease in a London hospital.

The family said: “Our daughter has been in hospital where is receiving treatment for some weeks now. She is currently under close medical observation. We learnt that the observation means that she has been unable to see anyone outside close family members over the last few weeks.
“They have also discouraged her use of phones to avoid any risk of infection which will be extremely harmful for her.
“Diezani is responding well, but doctors are concerned about her movement and interaction given the intense treatment being administered.
“It is such an emotional time for us all as she is quite fragile and we are careful to keep her away from all the gossip and falsehoods being attributed to her in the media. We expect the media to respect the family’s feelings at this trying time.”

The source especially asked those calling to investigate Diezani for balanced coverage of some of the opinions being discussed around by various interest groups.

He added: “The press, especially online media, should be careful to be professional and balanced in their reporting.”

There had been reports that former minister is suffering from cancer.
It should be mentioned that Nigerians are waiting to see Alison's Madueke's account for the 20 billion dollars the former CBN governor and now Emir of Kano, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi alleged was sidetracked from the Nigeria’s account by the minister and her associates in NNPC.
Apart from this, Diezani Alison-Madueke was also accused of squandering millions of dollars of public funds to rent private jets for the conduct of her official activities.

Every lady knows getting a guy’s attention and holding can be a real struggle. As what the ladies really need from their man is his attention which could be really frustrating if you dn't get it.
However, it is still doable, you can get your man’s attention, hold it and get him to really REALLY listen by using the following tips.

  1. Get their attention- In order to get your man to listen to you, you have to pick a time when he is available. Therefore, avoid trying to discuss a topic with your spouse when he is watching a football game as this is totally ineffective.
  2. Do not beat around the bush- While talking to a man, do not beat around the bush. You may find this difficult because women are known to spend an inordinate amount of time beating around the bush, however, you have to get straight to the point in order for your man to listen.
  3. Stop talking- Unfortunately, women are talkers so, it is quite common for a woman to go on and on even she has already made her point. By doing this, you lose his attention and might give him time to rethink and change his opinion. So, once you have made your point and everyone agrees with you, STOP TALKING.
       4 Be audible– Studies in neonatal clinics have found that men do not hear as well as women. So, speak up if you want to a man to hear you.

Hopes these helps though. be free to drop your comments and feed backs :p

There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Even the good reasons don’t stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas’ clothing. After a brief reasearch on why ladies get involved with married men it was discovered that most times this ladies go after married men because they are rich, compared to their broke boyfriend. They are more caring, for they know how to take care of them and they are always there for them. They have security and connection through this men. But ask yourself if its really worth it, losing your pride and dignity for something so lowly and vain.
A woman with even an ounce of pride would NEVER share someone else’s husband. If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap:

1. It is so wrong
Of all the reasons not to get involved with a married man, the primary one has to be this: it’s just plain wrong. Both a married man and his girlfriend can come up with all sorts of reasons to justify what they’re doing – it’s real love, his wife doesn’t treat him right, etc. Those are excuses but cheating is never right, and a person with dignity just wouldn’t be part of it.Getting involved with a married man is so wrong even for all the right reasons. Society frowns at it, God detests fornication, and you aren’t being fair to even yourself.

2. He is the winner
He’s got his cake and is eating it, too. He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what he’s missing in his marriage.He can spend his days with you and his nights with his wife; if you ask us, he is very blessed. When he is tired of you, he can move on with no strings attached, and don’t think he won’t. If he could do that to someone to whom he is legally bound, what will he do to you who only has his words? He is the one who is being hailed by his friends as “the really big man” while you are the husband- snatcher. He wins, for while his morale is always high, yours will be low, for you will have no dignity or pride again.

3. He won’t leave her for you
We don’t care how many promises he made to you, don’t expect him to leave her and come marry you. So you can start preparing yourself for a heartbreak when he moves on to someone else who is just as naïve. And yes he’ll find someone sweeter, shapelier and better than you ever are. pity you, he goes home to his wife, you go home wishing he it had lasted forever.

4. He might not be who you think he is
We hear stories about how some girls were used for ritual sacrifice, it isnt a day that the act is perpetuated, the married man could have kept stuffing the girl with money and food, like a broiler waiting for the day he’ll slaughter her for money ritual. But of course he wouldnt use his wife. You don chop, come die, funny. Besides you will never know for sure where he is, what he is doing, and who he is doing it with. There is always two sides to every story and unfortunately, you will never know any other side but his.

5. You’ll always be his little secret

No one can know about you. Not family, not respectable friends, you can’t go out with him in public because you just might get caught either by his family or yours. Plain and simple, he doesn’t want anybody to know about you for the fear of making himself look bad.Prepare for a hide-and-seek affair. You really can’t call what you are having a relationship, think of it more like a hide and seek game.And hiding can be exhausting, having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you. So why even bother?

6. Lose his respect and it’s over
It is pretty obvious that immediately you accept his offer, his respect for you is gone. because he is thinking “she’s after my money” so the likeness reduces and you become his little puppet, he’ll start stringing you around. So even though he’s the one who pursued you, even though he’s the one that made it difficult to say “No.” And even though he tells you how wonderful you are. At some level, he’s going to have trouble respecting you for settling for such a flawed relationship. Watch it, so he wont wash you

7. You’re kidding yourself

Despite that he tells you he loves you, reassuring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife and coming into your arms speaks for itself, you are a second best. A mediocre, and you are worth having fun with but not marrying. If such is the case why settle for less when you can go for your type.

8. Time is too precious to waste
Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older? And so matter how you try you will look older, especially since you are dating an older man, fact. Because it’s convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time, it will therrefore deter you from having a serious relationship. And omo! before you know it you have eaten up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing with an old man.

9. Loyalty is not one of his strong points
Obviously. If he can cheat on her{his wife}, he would do it to you. He made a vow when he married her and he clearly couldn’t follow through with it. What would make you think you’re any different than her? Infact your stand is even worse for you have no legal backing. I’m sure you do know this, yes?

10. Beware it can boomerang
There is no fool proof in cheating, even though you have all the sides covered and a schedule to keep your activities secret, remember “everyday is for the thief and one day is for the owner” but omo! that one day go brutal die, when the madam of the oga you have been sharing catch you pants down. Heh! heh! you will cry tears will not come and you’ll receive public disgrace and be humilited. And its funny that many men (and women) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions. Human nature finds it easier to blame than to accept shame. If he is caught by his wife or conscience, don’t be surprised if he tries to blame you and get you to take the fall.

Proverbs 6 vs 32 – whosoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding, a wound and reproach shall he get all the days of his life. People now commiting pre marital sex and sexual immorality this days and they all see it as being morally okay. But its so unfortunate that this so called enjoyment and okay lifestyles comes with a curse,

DELAYED MARRIAGE – especially to the ladies, when they reach 30 years and they are no suitor they will now move from one prayer houses to another seeking help and blaming their misfortune to their village and family people. This is a lamentation

ACADEMIC DECLINE – This is also another deadly effect of sexual immorality especially to those who were called by God. Majority of Students now are dropping out from the university, graduating with third class, and the undergraduates with low C.G.P.A, some write jamb for 6 years without admission when their mates are going higher. They fail to realize that God had cursed the disobedient who refused to keep his commandments to abstain from fornication. (1 thessalonians 4 vs 3). What an anguish!

STAGNATION – here is another stigma of those whose life and future have been wrecked by adultery. You will be in the same low position for 10 years. Your business is not moving, your financial life is still in a morribund, your mates are buying land, and building houses and youre still in that one room apartment as a tenant. Dude calm down, your life of sexual immorality has place you in such an awful condition.

DISAPPOINTMENTS IN BUSINESS – especially to those who normally patronizes prostitutes. every where you go and in all your endeavours you will be disappointed, you will be denied any form of help. Your business will be going down. why? Check yourself out

BARRENESS – majority of divorce cases roots down to barreness as the cause. Your husband (who is an unbeliever) will kick you out if you cant give him kids and bring another woman to your marital home. Dont worry, you used to commit abortions and commit sexual immorality with men who is up to be your grandfather.

SPIRITUAL DECLINE – you will be seeing yourself being chased by masquerades, and unclean animals in dream because your spirit is dead. Witches and wizards will be using you anyhow they like.
Proverbs 6 vs 26 – for by means of a whorish woman, a man is reduced to a piece of bread and the adultress will hunt for his precious life.
Sexual immorality is a sin that destroys the future. Repent from it and turn to God and He will restore back all you have lost.
Thannks For Reading.. Hope you're gonna abide though...

Two things you will lost before marriage that can never be regain back.
If before you marry and you have lost
These two things, my brother and my sister, you cannot regain them back.

1. Loosing your rightful partner: if before you got married you have lost your rueful partner that God kept for you and you went and married the wrong person. You have lost it forever, I advice you to pray and know your rightful partner before getting into marriage.
Marrying the wrong person can still take you back to a single lady or man that you used to be before.
Its better to be single praying to be married than to be married praying to become single again.

2. Loosing your vi*ginity: if you loose your virginity you can never regain it back, its better you keep it but for those of you that have lost it, pray to God and keep your self never to do it again.

It sometimes takes a careful observation to notice how deep your partner is hooked on you

Men are not so straight forward with their feelings and women wants a sure shot way of knowing when a man loves them. Some signs of true love are subtle. It sometimes takes a careful observation to notice how deep your partner is hooked on you. Here are behaviours that can help you figure out his feelings.


1. He actually listens when you give him a 20-minute-long play-by-play of a dramatic situation with your work frenemy.
2. He doesn’t suggest you go brush your teeth before he kisses you good morning.
3. He initiates cuddling that doesn’t lead to sex.
4. He’s introduced you to all his friends and when you met them, they already knew where you work and the things you like
5. He's introduced you to his parents (or wants to).
6. He texts you just to say “Good morning” or "I'm thinking about you."
7. He never misses the chance to tell you “Good night,” even if he’s out with the guys.

8. He’s prone to saying corny, eye-roll-inducing things such as, “You have the most beautiful smile.”
9. He’s equal parts proud and ever-so-slightly jealous when another man hits on you.
10. He gives you the remote more often than he hogs it.
11. He saves the last bite of any delicious meal just for you.
12. When you're in bed with killer cramps, he runs to the drugstore for tampons and painkillers.
13. All it takes is a single smile aimed in his direction, and this man can’t stay mad at you.

14. Whether he’s prepping for a big meeting or simply picking out his tie, he likes to get your opinion.
15. He cares whether you orgasm and learns what it takes to make it happen.
16. He puts his phone away when you’re around.
17. He teases you in ways that feel funny, not mean.
18. He’s saved every card and note you’ve ever given him. Heck, he even has a sliver of wrapping paper from your first-ever gift exchange.
19. He tells everyone he knows when you have a life achievement of any kind.
20. He says, “I love you” every day, and you believe him.

From Pulse Ng

A man in China was left heartbroken and embarrassed after his grand romantic gesture ended in rejection.
The unnamed suitor tried to propose to TV dating show contestant Peng Yang, 27, in Shenzhen, southern China.He arrived with a fleet of 20 sports cars and a bouquet of flowers, according to People’s Daily Online.
However, Peng walked off in embarrassment leaving him posing on one knee. The man hired the fleet of cars, which included a Ferrari and a Mercedes-Benz, in a bid to sweep the beauty off her feet. He attracted lots of attention when he came out for one of the luxurious vehicles with a bunch of flowers and knelt down ready to propose.

Peng, who features on a popular dating show every week, appeared shocked and embarrassed by the incident.The reality star looked uncomfortable and was seen burying her face in her palms several times, before saying:
‘Why do you have to do that?’I beg of you, please stand up! There are so many people looking!’
Peng, then strutted off, leaving her rejected friend on the floor.

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"I Give Myself Away"

[Chorus x2:]
I give myself away
I give myself away
So You can use me
I give myself away
I give myself away
So You can use me

[Verse 1:]
Here I am
Here I stand
Lord, my life is in your hands
Lord, I'm longing to see
Your desires revealed in me

I give myself away
I give myself away
So You can use me
I give myself away
I give myself away
So You can use me

[Verse 2:]
Take my heart
Take my life
As a living sacrifice
All my dreams all my plans
Lord I place them in your hands

[Chorus x2:]
I give myself away
I give myself away
So You can use me
I give myself away
I give myself away
So You can use me

[Bridge x7:]
My life is not my own
To you I belong
I give myself, I give myself to you


             Majesty, Majesty
Your grace has found me just as I am
Empty handed, but alive in your hands
We're singing Majesty, We're singing Majesty
Forever I am changed by your love
In the presence of your Majesty

We're singing Majesty, Majesty
Your grace has found me just as I am
Empty handed, but alive in your hands
We're singing Majesty, We're singing Majesty
Forever I am changed by your love
In the presence of your Majesty

Majesty, Majesty
Your grace has found me just as I am
Empty handed, but alive in your hands
Majesty, Majesty
Forever I am changed by your love
In the presence of your Majesty

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Oh we praise You Lord, We praise your name
you are the father, you are the father
Oh we love You, we love you
Oh! Hallelujah, Hallelujah

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